| Natural Woman, Back to Basics or Birthing Basics
With the World Health Organisation predicting that the caesarean
birth rate could reach 40% by 2010, one Perth woman is on
a mission to promote a non-medical approach to child birth
which she says better empowers women and their partners. Melenie
Ambrose reports:
In 1992 while living and working in Japan, swimming instructor
Gabrielle Targett had a life altering experience. Accepting
an invitation from a girlfriend to attend a lecture by renowned
European obstetrician and water birth specialist Michel Odent,
she says she witnessed videos of “the most beautiful
water births imaginable”.
“It was the first image I had seen of birth and I thought
if ever I have babies, that’s how I’m going to
bring them into the world”, says Targett, whose next
defining moment was to meet Australian Estelle Myers, a water
birth pioneer whose film on the human-dolphin connection won
her the United Nations Association’s Media Peace Prize.
Within three years, Targett was living her waterworld dream.
On April 8, 1995, heavily pregnant with her first child and
bobbing around in the waters off Bunbury in the State’s
south-west, she was surrounded by her now regular pod of devoted
dolphins.
“They were going wild, jumping over my head and swimming
around friskily. I thought wow, this is amazing. They knew
something was about to happen”, says the first-time
mum, who the next day went into labour with daughter Jaeosha.
With water births illegal in WA hospitals back in the mid-90’s,
Targett had to seek special permission to birth Jaeosha in
a giant tub at Fremantle hospital. The historic event even
sparked interest from a film crew in Japan who flew to document
Australia’s first “water baby”. The team
was intrigued by the fact Targett had not only birthed in
water but swum with dolphins while she was pregnant.
Since then, the 38-year-old has gone on to have two more
“powerful and positive” waterbirth experiences,
bringing sons Benjamin, now 10 and Jarrad, 8 into the world
in tubs in her Fremantle home. The drug-free labours each
lasted two-and-a-half, six and two hours respectively.
So enthralled with her own experience, the fitness instructor
has gone on to become an outspoken natural childbirth advocate.
For the past ten years, she’s worked as a Doula: a
non-medically trained birth assistant, supporting women throughout
their labour and beyond by providing mental, physical and
emotional care. She also runs the State’s first Doula
Training Course together with her own business, A Labour of
Love Ante and Post Natal Birth Support Services.
“I found I had so much to say about birth after having
these three beautiful birthing experiences. I’m not
pro-natural birth and anti-caesarean though. I don’t
want to get that message across at all. I just want as many
people as possible to understand the process of natural childbirth;
to become better educated and informed in the choices they
make”, she says.
In 2005, Targett self-published her first book, A Labour
of Love: An Australian Guide to Natural Childbirth to the
tune of $10,000. Endorsed by the Australian College of Midwives,
it proved to be a popular seller and has since been picked
up by publishers, Fremantle Arts Centre Press. In the book,
Targett attempts to de-mystify the many fears surrounding
vaginal births while promoting her own water-based techniques
including “hypnobirthing” which she claims can
lead to a more relaxing birthing experience.
She describes figures which show caesareans rates skyrocketing
as “alarming”. In Western Australia alone, an
estimated 53% of babies are being born via caesarean at Perth’s
larger private hospitals. Nationally, the rate has increased
from 10% in the 1970’s to 30% in 2005. While experts
predict that could rise to 40% by 2010, the World Health Organisation
has called for the rate to be reduced to between 10-15%.
“If women must have a caesarean for medical reasons
that’s understandable as the procedure can save babies'
and women's lives”, says Targett. “But I
do feel a vast majority are being channelled into that avenue
because they are terrified of birth. Others want value for
their dollar. Having paid an awful lot of money for an obstetrician,
they hand over their birth experience to their detriment.
Once on the whole cascade of medical intervention, they usually
end up with a caesarean”, she says with a frown.
Targett believes the fear factor surrounding vaginal births
has reached “epidemic proportions” today and continues
to spread “like a disease”. She says scary, outdated
birth videos shown to expectant parents at ante-natal classes
don’t help the problem. Confronted with an unknown woman
in various positions, “yelling and screaming when you
haven’t seen labour before” can be “really,
really terrifying”, says Targett who knows many a couple
who has walked out unsettled by the clips on offer.
“Sure, a pregnant woman may yell and scream but we
owe it to women and their partners to also show beautiful,
calm videos that capture the essence of birth as a celebration.
It’s about putting it in balance”, she says, pointing
out that she chooses not to show any videos at all to her
clients. Instead they create a mind’s eye view of THEMSELVES
birthing through visualisation and hypnosis work.
According to Targett, another negative factor surrounding
vaginal births in borne from parents themselves in the form
of horrendous birthing stories. Recalled like they only “happened
yesterday”, each is spelt out in graphic detail “oblivious
to the effects” they’re having on the listener,
she says.
“Sadly, that is some women's way of debriefing
and getting through it. They don’t seek out any help
from formal practitioners to get through their experiences.
They get very caught up in their story and the terror snowballs.
The more women they tell, the more the fear spreads and so
an increased number believe birth is going to take them to
hell and back. They’re so terrified and fearful of the
pain of labour that they just want to escape it. Women have
forgotten they have the power and strength to labour and birth”,
she says.
While Targett concedes she has little to do with elective-Caesarean
types (“I don’t tend to attract them”) she
says she has seen some remarkable turnarounds in her time
as a fitness instructor at the Fremantle Leisure Centre. She
says pregnant women as late as 34-36 weeks have “completely
backed out of their chosen hospital” to opt for mid-wifery
based care after reading “A Labour of Love” or
chatting with her at the pool. Others have asked their obstetrician
to support them more “in a way they WANT to be supported”
culminating in “these amazing and beautiful 12-hour
labours”.
Preferring to talk in terms of “intensity” rather
than pain (“pain is merely a perception”), the
Perth doula says fear in childbirth can be “a self-fulfilling
prophecy”. If you’re mentally telling yourself
“every single day it’s going to hurt, it will”,
she says. Targett claims to know of many women who have had
“ecstatic” even “orgasmic” birth experiences,
fuelled by hormones from powerful Oxytocins and Endorphins.
The only problem is they don’t like to talk about their
experience for fear of ridicule.
“For some women childbirth does bloody hurt. That’s
the fact. But not ALL women experience labour like that. Some
will go, WOW! I could have taken more. Bring it on! I could
have had more of that. It depends on the mental preparation.
That’s where it lies. If you are mentally prepared in
a different way by using hypnosis, have a strong belief in
yourself and feel empowered, you are going to experience labour
in a very different way to someone who is fearful, anxious
and hasn’t been taught to breathe or done any deep relaxation
activities”, says Targett.
As for the stigma that water births are a radical, New Age
thing, Targett (who likes to point out she is not “some
way-out hippie” herself) says perceptions have certainly
changed. She says a lot more “mainstream” women
are today opting to use the hexagonal or octagon shaped birthing
tubs made from a series of one-metre long panels. Rubber foam
in the tub’s base, below the liner make them cushiony
soft, enabling women to stay in them for hours.
While statistics show that as many as 80% of women who elect
to have a caesarean do so again, there is an increasing number
of mothers wanting to try for a vaginal birth after having
a caesar. Targett says a vast majority of her clients are
what’s called VBAC’s (Vaginal Birth After Caesarean)
otherwise known as EBAC’s (Empowered Birth After Caesarean).
She claims they feel “completely ripped off”
by their first birthing experience, most often an emergency
caesarean. While a common held belief is that vaginal births
are not possible after a caesarean section due to the possibility
of surgical scars rupturing, Targett says in her experience,
more women than ever are EBACing “very, very successfully”.
“The loss of power and the sense of losing something
women think is rightfully theirs, sits with them for years.
That is why we are seeing a whole movement of women having
VBAC’s and EBAC’s. They feel like something was
taken away from them and they want it back”, she says.
In addition to juggling her home life and busy work schedule
including deepwater aqua and hydrotherapy toning and relaxation
classes for pregnant women, Targett is also writing a new
book along the same lines as her first. This time though she
promises it will be “more assertive”, calling
on those who work with pregnant women to be more accountable
for their actions. She is also organising the 4th Australian
National Doula Conference in Perth in October this year expected
to attract up to 100 doulas from around the nation.
For now though, this Perth mum of three who still loves nothing
better than diving into the waters off Bunbury to swim with
dolphins is looking at the bigger picture. She wants to see
“generation after generation still having the option
to birth naturally”…and that includes her first-born
daughter Jaeosha.
“The way the rate of caesareans are going, I fear we
could get close to losing natural childbirth forever. I would
love to know that my daughter has the option to home water
birth, naturally if that’s what she chooses along with
every other woman in Australia and around the world”.
A Labour of Love by Gabrielle Targett is published by Fremantle
Arts Centre Press RRP $26.95. For more information on Gabrielle
and the 4th Annual National Doula conference, log onto www.alabouroflove.com.au
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